“Write every day.” We writers have heard this mantra from nearly every teacher, writing coach, agent, and editor we’ve encountered. We’ve heard it from other authors who’ve had it drilled into their heads so often they have no choice but parrot it when asked about their writing habits.
I call bullshit.
First, I believe that all writers can—and should—have different processes for creating new work, and that a particular process can—and should—change to fit the creation. If forcing yourself to sit each morning in front of a blank screen until beads of words form on your brow is a technique that works for you, that’s great. Goody for you. And if waking from a deep sleep with a scene in your head rouses you from bed at 2:00 a.m. to pound on your keyboard, that’s equally as wonderful. Or, if staring out the window for an hour, or sitting on the beach for three days, or walking your neighborhood each morning for two weeks is what causes (or allows) a story to jell in your mind before you type the first word, then that’s fabulous, too.
If your particular way of writing works for you, then it’s the perfect way for you to write. One size does not fit all.
There’s nothing like a deadline to encourage your words to appear on a page. When you were in school, your teachers gave you a due date for every assignment, because if they didn’t, you wouldn’t do the research that resulted in ideas that formed the thoughts you typed onto the page. Now that you’re out of school, it may be up to you to set imaginary deadlines, if that’s what it takes to keep you focused. Or maybe you work with a writing group, and you set deadlines for each other to meet. If deadlines are what you need, then set them.
Whether your deadline is real or imaginary, sometimes life gets in the way, and you simply must take a break from writing. Recently, that’s happened to me.
I work multiple jobs (adjunct professor, Realtor, ghostwriter, editor) and have myriad “unpaid” responsibilities (mother, wife, homemaker, book reviewer, blogger). It’s no surprise that these tasks often come with their own deadlines, and sometimes those deadlines bottleneck into the same week or same day. My personal writing simply has to take a back seat for a while.
I’m not advocating putting your writing aside for other duties: no! Writing—if you take your writing seriously at all—must be a priority. However, if you’re sitting in front of your computer in an attempt to get into the mind of your main character while ignoring more pressing responsibilities, your brain often won’t let you slide into the creative mode required to write well. The muse—if you believe in muses—will tell you to get your butt up and do what must be done.
When, then, will you get back to writing?
Here’s what I believe: writers are always writing. Just because we’re not sitting in front of our computers or holding a pad and pen in hand doesn’t mean we’re not creating stories.
During my low-residency MFA days, we were tasked with keeping a writing log that detailed the hours we spent reading and writing. I always struggled with how to approach this log, because it seemed to me then—and now—that rare are the hours when I’m not reading or writing. When I’m driving, I’m plotting. When I’m drifting off to sleep at night, I place my characters in a scene (one that may or may not be appropriate for my story), and I see what they’ll do. When I’m doing housework, I imagine a setting and how I’d describe it from my main character’s point of view. When I’m in the shower, I consider what obstacles I can put in the way of my characters’ goals and dreams. When I’m walking, I figure out how in the world my character can get around those obstacles I’ve created. This is writing.
Sometimes I make notes when a great idea pops into my head. My desk, my purse, and the inside covers of books I’m reading are littered with scribbles; scrawled ideas, scenes, sentences, or even sparse phrases that I know I’ll use when I next sit down to write.
And when time has passed and that precious, quiet hour arrives when I finally sit down in front of my screen, the ideas are all there. The sticky notes and index cards are placed in front of me, the books are stacked within reach, their pages flagged with points of inspiration. My fingers fly over the keys.
It’s then I realize that my time away from the keyboard is not and never has been a hiatus from writing: it is my impetus to create.
Yes, yes, yes.
I’m so glad you enthusiastically agree!
I’m glad you wrote this. I am in a phase that involves writing small bits of notions while I navigate my first months without my mother. Indeed, we write when we are not with pen, paper, or keyboard, and this is comfort as I wait for enough adjustment and healing to occur to allow words to flow freely again. I don’t try to make sense of all I think or write, these days. One foot in front of the other. One iamb at a time.
“One iamb at a time.” That’s the only way to write! Well said!
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Excellent blog, Rhonda. Thank you for sharing this with us. I agree. When my girls were little, I’d craft a scene to perfection in my mind until I had those precious moments to put words on paper. I can’t imagine sitting at a keyboard with a blank mind. I also found I’ve done my best “writing” while doing mundane chores, like washing dishes or vacuuming. I have conversations with characters while driving (I’ve learned not to get too involved with crafting scenes while driving, though–I’ve ended up sitting through green lights a few times, and once I ended up in a strange neighborhood with no clue of where I was. And that was before GPS and cell phones. So, yes, you’ve voiced something here that I think resonates with all writers.
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Thank you for commenting, Sandy. I’ll admit, I’ve driven past an exit myself, when working out a plotting issue in the car. Distracted driving, for sure!